Love and Sex(Part 2)

7) Same sex love Ever felt an intense burst of happiness when you see a friend of the same sex? You're bothstraight, you don't cuddle and you don't grope each other. But somehow you just lovethis person, and you either have a man crush or a girl crush on this friend of yours. Same sex love is an emotion you'd feel for your friend or even a celebrity, but it's got less to do with sexual attraction and more to do with awe, respect and admiration. 8) Lusty love Ever dated someone who got you wet with a hug? Ever had a crush on someone who makes you want to do things to yourself when you're alone in bed? Yeah, you've experienced lusty love! Lusty love is the type of love you experience when you lust for someone or get into a relationship with someone you're extremely sexually attracted to. The first few weeks are all about sex and the positions, and both of you need just a few seconds of alone time to throw each other's clothes on the floor. If a relationship of yours revolves more around the bed and less around trees and flowers, you're in lusty love, my love. 9) Romantic love Butterflies, bliss and Louis Armstrong's 'what a wonderful' is all you need to think of when you experience romantic love. It's beautiful, sappy love at its best. You feel the flutter of butterflies in your stomach, the world looks so much more beautiful and you can't hold that grin back nomatter what you do. You want to be with your sweetheart all the time, and even when you're not together, you can't help wanting to be together. You're happy. Your lover's happy. The world'shappy for you. And you're having the time of your life! 10) Unconditional love Blessed are the lovers who experience this special type of love for each other. It's not easy and it's definitely not something most people even want to try. But if you do ever take a leap of faith, you'd see what true love really feels like. Do you love someone more than you love yourself? Do you care about your lover more than you care about anything else is the world? Chances are, you may be experiencingunconditional love. Unconditional love is the stuff fairy tales and romance novels are madeof. If both of you care about each other and love each other selflessly, you're in the middleof a special typeof love that few ever experience, but spend alltheir lives looking . If you do want to ensure that you experiencethis tenth type of love, take a leap of faith andtruly fall back in love with someone who loves you. Soon enough, with a bit of trust, communication and hope, you may just live through this grand experience that dreams are made of! Now I think the above has explained the different type of love we can experience.Now here comes the other word "SEX",the three letter word full of confusion. In defining Sex,I across another article by a doctor,Marty Klein(Phd),Read this: Sex has no intrinsic Meaning. Almost everyone wishes it did. The desire to give sex meaning is an understandable, important enterprise. Honestly approached, it can be a valuable exercise; disguised as the righteous desire tosimply appreciate the meaning sex has, or as the pursuit of restoring sex's "true" meaning,it is a common source of conflict for both individuals and society. Sex only has meaning insofar as we experience it. Its meaning is emergent, not objective. We discover the meaning of sex each time we are sexual, meaning that only resides in our experience. The meaning of sex changes--is reinvented--each time we aresexual. Most people need sex to have meaning because the alternative is too frightening: being sexual in an existential vacuum. Sex without meaning would require participants to float freely in sexual experience, rather than being snugly anchored in a cognitive framework. This is scary because of our indoctrination that sex is bad. We learn that we need protection from our sexuality: its non-linear, open-ended nature, its cacophonyof impulsesand feelings, its transcendent possibility of taking us away from ourselves. We might not,after all, make it back. Because sex is ultimately grounded in the body, it is a right-brain, non-linear experience, not a left-brain, cognitive one. Of course, sex can be analyzed, evaluated, and so on, but not as part of the experience. Having sex and understanding sex are two separate activities, much like eating and understanding nutrition are two separate activities. Trying to understand nutrition or digestion while eating undermines the sensuality and enjoyment offered by the experience of dining. "Sex" is not limited to intercourse; not even limited, in fact, to genital activities. In reality,"sex" describes a huge range of activities. This is half of a dialectic: many things can be sex because sex has whatever meaning we experience moment by moment;and sex has an infinite range of meanings because the scope of activities that can properly be called sexual is so vast. Part 3 of this Article Coming Soon